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昨天,遇见了好久不见的朋友。他说每一段感情,他都不会投入100%的感情。
听了后,我思索了好久。
现代人,是不是都因害怕受到伤害,才选择不对每份感情投入100%?
我问他,没投入100%的感情,那你是否曾真心爱过她?
他说,这就是男人与女人的perception difference。每个人对付出100%的定义都有所不同。
没投入100%,不代表他不爱她,只是他选择了一条后路,好让自己在抽离恋情时,能够完全放下。
我想,我明白他的意思。
在这瞬息万变的年代,人们都比较实际。结果导致了“要对自己仁慈”的做法攀升。现今爱情里,父母那一套100%付出的做法,似乎也快濒临绝种。
无奈地,这就是现实。毕竟童话故事的"Happily Ever After"不是每个人都能拥有的。
你是哪个年代的情人?
paws printed by Kelle at 9:52:00 am 0 comments
Okie, guys.... I've gotten a new flat! Sounds like a big toy right? Anyway, the estimated date of completion for this flat would be in Oct 2012, and earliest by end of 2011. When all's done, you guys will be invited over to warm the house! The best thing about the flat is, it's 2 LRT stops away from my current workplace! *victory* Which means, sleeping late and waking up later is going to be a dream come true!
I can't express my excitment now. But I can assure you, I'm financially Stressed!!! Was doing some financial calculation these few days and had realised.........................................
for the next few years, LKL can't anyhow splurge!!! Boohoohoo! That's something rather depressing, isn't it? Nontheless, I believe this is part and parcel of everyone's life!
Today, I got to know a friend's pomeranian had gone to the rainbow bridge. Striker is considered lucky to have had a lovely 1 year with you. Some dogs there are not as fortunate!
paws printed by Kelle at 9:33:00 am 0 comments
Oh yeah!
Last night, I dreamt that I just passed my exam with C's and D's dominating the result slip.
Today, when I was about to leave NIE for the NIE 2009 conference, Sandra sms to say result is out!
So out of convenience, I used iphone to check my result. hehe! Drum roll----------------------2nd lower honours! haha! If you are wondering why am I so satisfied with 2nd lower honours, the reason is simple. I'm really easily contented when it comes to academic stuff. *wink wink*
Anyway, this week I will be in NIE for NIE conference from Mon-Wed. Then Thurs, Fri I will be back in School for meetings. Though conference's hour is quite long, but I certainly enjoy the occassional doze-off treats(sth I don't get in school meetings!=P)!
Okie, looking forward to meeting my NIE TX, XY! =) Let's have some catching up session!
Also, haven't seen my honey and dear for quite somewhile!!! Miss u guys!!! :P (P.S. don't let ning + yi gege see this k)
Sigh.......Can't this week just
fly?
paws printed by Kelle at 9:03:00 pm 0 comments